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How to Not Let the Storm Win in Life

This was the lesson I learned just this last week. Being a classic type A personality, I like it when things go as planned. I do not like it when things shift at a last-minute notice. I had my trip for the beach booked nearly nine months in advance of the time I would go. I had a photo shoot with my company lined up for my time there as well. I was ready. I had been thinking about that sun hitting my face and the sand between my toes for a solid two weeks as I bulldozed through work stress. It was the light at the end of the tunnel so to speak. Then the inevitable happened. A hurricane. It is also good to note here that I don’t even pretend to keep up with the news. I had no idea it was even headed for the coast. I had already packed my two teenagers and myself to leave the next morning when my photographer reached out to me to inquire on my plans in light of the hurricane watch. Wait. What? I looked at her text and then checked the weather (I know, I know…I should have already done that). That is when I realized that there was indeed a hurricane watch and they were predicting it to hit straight onto the beach I was headed for the next day. 

It pays to stay weather aware.

What did I do? I cried. Literally. I was so upset because I felt like I needed this time away more than anything and I was so upset by the thought that I might have to cancel. I knew I could brave it and just go down there hoping it turned its course, but I had kids in tow. I knew the responsible thing to do was to cancel the trip. I called the hotel which granted me to cancel with no fee. I contacted the photographer who cancelled the photoshoot and refunded me the money I had paid. I sat there and pouted like my two-year-old toddler. I texted my mom to tell her the news and that is when she came back with “your dad said, don’t let the storm win…go to the mountains.” I stared at the text. Booked a condo in five seconds flat and the decision was made. Mountains would be where we went. I unpacked all of our swimsuits and beach towels for some hoodies and slacks. 

Sometimes we need to be reminded. Don’t let the storm win. It might just mean you need to change directions. It might be a warning trying to get you to alter from the way you were headed. It might mean that you needed to shift and change to get a better outcome. Whatever the reason…change can be good. It took my dad who personally loves the mountains over the beach to remind me that I only needed to shift perspectives. Shift directions. Shift the way I see it all. The whole when life hands you lemons, make lemonade cliché. I could have continued to sit on my couch and throw a pity party. I could have been a grump all week because I was at home with no sand in between my toes. Or…I could choose to not let the storm win. I could change perspectives. I could look for more creative solutions. I could choose change the way I saw it all. I could go a different direction. 

We went to the mountains. I had a marvelous time. I enjoyed the view and the fall leaves changing colors. I soaked in the mountain breeze. I reminded myself that it is all the way we perceive it. We can choose to not let the storm win. It is within our power to shift our perspective no matter what it is. Bad marriage – what lessons did we learn. Failed friendship – what new friends are we supposed to find. Lost job – what better one is out there for us to land. It is a lot about perspective. It is a lot about choosing to not let the storm win. It is a lot about looking for creative solutions to the problems. It is a lot about a mountain vacation instead of the beach because that is the way the wind blows sometimes.

Until next time…don’t let the storm win. 

COVID-19 spreads rapidly across Mississippi as hospital capacity drops

Three days after expanding his county-wide mask mandates, Gov. Tate Reeves signaled new restrictions coming Friday as COVID-19 continues to spread at a growing rate in Mississippi.

Reeves said he expects tomorrow to place new counties under mask requirements and hinted at statewide restrictions regarding bars.

“We are not trying to induce panic,” he said during a press conference on Thursday. “We are trying to make sure there’s a healthy respect throughout this state for this deadly virus.

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Gov. Tate Reeves speaks to media about his shelter-in-place order for Lauderdale County during a press conference at the State of Mississippi Woolfolk Building in Jackson, Miss., Tuesday, March 31, 2020.

“There were times in this pandemic when fear was over the top. Now the pendulum has swung where we have too many people acting as if this virus doesn’t exist.”

After setting a single-day record for new cases a week ago, Mississippi has surpassed that mark three times since. More telling, the seven-day average is now at 1,179 cases per day, a 71 percent increase in the last two weeks.

In seven of the last nine days, the state health department reported daily new cases of over 1,000; Mississippi recorded only two such days between Mar. 11 and July 10.

“Today we’re reporting 982 (new cases),” state health officer Thomas Dobbs said Thursday. “It’s kind of shocking when that seems like a good number.”

Dobbs added that eight hospitals reported having no vacancies in their ICUs. The seven-day average for COVID-19 hospitalizations continues to rise, now having increased for 34 straight days, and 44 percent in the last two weeks.

The rolling averages for ICU patients and patients on ventilators have increased for 25 and 18 straight days, respectively. Forty percent of all the state’s ICU patients are from coronavirus, Dobbs said on Wednesday.

“That’s absolutely astounding, just a week ago we were at 30 percent,” Dobbs said.

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State health officer Thomas Dobbs at a press conference at UMMC.

On Monday, Reeves added 10 counties to the list of places under a mask mandate, which is set to expire Aug. 3.

In total, 23 out of the state’s 82 counties are under a mask mandate: Bolivar, Claiborne, Covington, DeSoto, Forrest, Grenada, Harrison, Hinds, Humphreys, Jackson, Jefferson, Madison, Panola, Quitman, Rankin, Sharkey, Simpson, Sunflower, Tallahatchie, Tate, Walthall, Washington and Wayne.

During a press conference on Wednesday, Reeves explained the criteria for adding counties to that list. There are two measures the state uses:

  • Counties with over 200 cases in a 14-day period, and/or
  • Counties that have 500 new cases per 100,000 residents

There are seven counties that have passed the first metric but aren’t included in the mask mandate: Warren, Pontotoc, Lauderdale, Coahoma, Jones, Lee, and Lamar counties. Based on today’s numbers, no counties have passed the second metric.

“I would anticipate an amended order, adding counties tomorrow,” Reeves said Thursday.

While testing has increased — at about 6,700 tests per day in the last week — so has the positivity rate of tests, averaging 18 percent over the last week. That figure peaked at 20 percent on July 11.

 

For daily case numbers, weekly updates and charts and maps, click here.

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Gallery | Parents for Safe Schools Rally

INDIANOLA —About 30 parents, educators, students and community members gathered at Minnie Cox Park here for the Parents for Safe Schools Rally to protest schools reopening due to the rising number of coronavirus cases and deaths around Mississippi. Many schools across the state are expected to reopen in August despite the rising number of reported cases.

According to State Health Officer Dr. Thomas Dobbs, 2,413 cases have been reported in children between the ages of 11 and 17. As of Thursday, Sunflower County has a total of 721 cases and Bolivar County has 673. Around the state, total confirmed cases have reached 48,053, with 1,436 confirmed deaths. A follow-up rally, led by Mississippi Teachers Unite, is scheduled for Monday in Cleveland.

Here are images from the Parents for Safe Schools Rally:












 

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Rep. Earle Banks enters contentious race for Mississippi Democratic Party chair

State Rep. Earle Banks, D-Jackson, answers a question during a short debate in 2012. (AP Photo/Rogelio V. Solis)

UPDATE: A state Democratic Party executive committee meeting scheduled for Thursday night has been cancelled. This story has been updated to include that information.

Longtime state Rep. Earle Banks on Thursday entered a contentious race for the chairmanship of the Mississippi Democratic Party.

And on Thursday afternoon, the party canceled a planned Thursday-night teleconference meeting to elect new officers because of Banks and potentially others entering the race for the chairmanship.

Banks, who has reportedly been suffering from COVID-19 recently, in a message to committee members assured them, “I am on the mend,” and not too sick to run for the office.

A 28-year veteran lawmaker who has served as vice chairman, or second in command, of the state Democratic Party since 2016, Banks said: “This is no time to go back to the leadership of the past. It is time for the Mississippi Democratic Party to have proven leadership that has decades of experience in the party.”

Banks’ entrance into the race comes as longtime state Appeals Court Judge Tyree Irving mounts a challenge to oust party Chairman Bobby Moak, who’s held the position since 2016.

In addition to their service together the past four years as the party’s top leaders, Moak, a former longtime lawmaker, and Banks served together in the state House for many years, where Moak was minority leader.

READ MORE: Inside the battle for control of the Mississippi Democratic Party

Irving this week told Mississippi Today that 45 members of the party’s newly elected 80-member executive committee have pledged support to him, and another eight have told others they’ll vote for him.

Many Democratic leaders and candidates have decried a lack of leadership in the party and support for candidates, particularly amid the party’s dismal showing in the 2019 statewide elections. Republicans swept all statewide offices last year, solidifying supermajority control of the state Legislature and increasing down-ticket wins on the local level.

Some party elders have also criticized Moak and other party leaders for failing to devote resources to electing Black candidates, even as white voters have left the party in droves and Black voters have become a substantial majority of the party’s base. The last six Democratic Party chairmen, including Moak, have been white. Irving and Banks are Black.

For his part, Moak has recently said the party has offered much organized help to candidates in the latest election cycles, has created an unprecedented social media outreach and had fundraising success under his leadership.

Irving and others have accused Moak of delaying a leadership election since the new committee was elected in May because of the move to unseat him. Using a provision in the party’s constitution, Irving supporters had forced a special meeting for Saturday. But after that meeting was called, Moak called one for Thursday night.

On Thursday Moak sent a message to committee members saying the Thursday meeting was canceled, “Due to the entry of at least 3 candidates for office that I have seen today, and acknowledging the concerns some have for that meeting this afternoon.” He said the special called Saturday meeting will be held as scheduled.

Moak also included results of an “independent, in-depth analysis of the MS Democratic Party” that he said shows “many highlights to be proud of — like our current staff’s work and strong finances.” He said it also identifies weaknesses such as a lack of engagement with county and local organizations “along with a game plan for moving ahead.”

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57 years ago, the late Stan Hindman, a Renaissance man, made a play for the ages

Stan Hindman, a consensus All American for Ole Miss in 1965, died on July 15 in California.

This was Nov. 3, 1963, a Saturday. Ole Miss was playing a rare afternoon football game against LSU in Baton Rouge. CBS was broadcasting. I was 11 years old, watching on a black and white TV in Hattiesburg.

As was always those case in those days, the Ole Miss-LSU game had SEC and national championship implications. Ole Miss was undefeated. LSU had lost once. Ole Miss sped to an early lead and LSU was fighting to get back in the game. And then it happened.

Ole Miss punted and LSU speedster Joe Labruzzo, who had run the 100-yard dash in 9.6 seconds for the LSU track team, gathered in the kick at his own 14 and took off. He broke into the clear and seemed headed for an 86-yard touchdown that might have turned the game around. Then, a huge Ole Miss player appeared on the screen, racing to try and catch Labruzzo from behind. This huge, speeding Rebel was a sophomore from Newton, named Stan Hindman. Labruzzo weighed 175 pounds. Hindman weighed 232. As Labruzzo crossed the 5-yard-line, Hindman reached out his right arm, snagged Labruzzo from behind, and took him down at the one-yard-line. Ole Miss then held the Tigers on a goal line stand and went on to win the game 37-3. Nearly 57 years later, Hindman’s rundown of Labruzzo remains one of the most incredible athletic feats I have witnessed.

“Not many linemen anywhere could have done that,” Ole Miss coaching legend John Vaught said in the next day’s newspaper. Vaught called Hindman the “greatest lineman he had ever coached at this stage of his career.”

When told the player who had run the great Labruzzo down from behind was a sophomore guard, LSU coach Charlie McClendon responded: “A guard, you say. I can’t believe it.”

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So why bring up this play from 57 years ago? Because Stan Hindman, a Mississippi Sports Hall of Famer, died July 15 in Oakland, Cal., where he was a renowned architect and sculptor. Hindman, three times an All-SEC player and once a consensus All-American, was 76.

Stan Hindman, a college football god, was the quintessential Renaissance man. A pre-med major who made straight As, he was as interested in art as he was football, says Mike Dennis, his roommate for four years at Ole Miss.

“Stan wasn’t like the rest of us; he studied all the time,” said Dennis, a running back who became a dentist. “Stan loved school. He loved to learn.”

Stan Hindman, whose younger brother Steve was also an Ole Miss star, did not originally attend Ole Miss. No, he accepted an appointment at West Point to play football for Army. Federal judge Rhesa Barksdale was in the same plebe class as Hindman at West Point. Says Barksdale, “He was only at West Point for two months and he was already the best football player Army had. He was unbelievable.”

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Stan Hindman was a big, fast guy.

And he was out of place. The Army way did not suit Hindman, who had been recruited by all the southern football powers including Ole Miss and LSU. In October, he called Vaught to see if Ole Miss still had a scholarship for him. Vaught, of course, said he did, and then Vaught had someone go fetch Dennis, who was an Ole Miss freshman and a friend of Hindman’s from when they had competed against one another in high school track meets. Vaught did not often talk to freshmen back then, and Dennis wondered what he had done wrong to be summoned by the legendary head coach.

“Mike, I have some really good news,” Vaught told him. “Stan Hindman is joining us at Ole Miss. And, Mike, you are going to be his roommate.”

Dennis reminded Vaught he was rooming with another freshman, who, as Dennis, had attended Murrah High School. Vaught responded, “Mike, as I told you, I want you to room with Stan Hindman.”

And that was that. Hindman and Dennis, both future pro football players, roomed together all four years at Ole Miss. Says Dennis, who now lives in Oxford, “I can honestly say we never had a harsh word, not one.”

“Stan was a quiet guy, and one of the smartest guys I ever knew,” Dennis says. “He could have been a great doctor, or a dentist like his dad, or an engineer or anything else.”

Stan Hindman was drafted in the first round by the San Francisco 49ers, and, says Dennis, could have been All-Pro offensive lineman from the start. But the 49ers needed more help on defense and so he began his pro career as a defensive end. When a serious knee injury caused him to lose a step, he slid over to defensive tackle. He wore jersey number 80, the same jersey another Mississippian, Jerry Rice, would wear years later.

Hindman started and played seven NFL seasons, becoming increasingly interested in architecture all the while. By the end of his football career he was living in Haight Ashbury studying architecture at Cal-Berkley. He later studied at UCLA. “I loved going to school,” he told a writer in 2007.

“I love the gathering of the information, creating the seed of what the building is going to look like,” Hindman told Dave Newhouse of the East Bay Times. “Then getting the sense of what it can be from an architectural standpoint and achieving it.”

Newhouse asked Hindman which pursuit defined him: architecture or football?

“The greatest sense of inner-satisfaction is derived from the architecture,” Hindman answered. “It’s something I’ve been doing for the longer time. But part of me is being an athlete. I owe football a lot.”

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Marshall Ramsey: The Gub’ner’s Choices

The flag redesign commission has already met without Governor Tate Reeves’ appointed members — who are unnamed at this point. When asked about it at Wednesday’s press conference, the Governor said he was busy with COVID-19, would do so when he was darn well ready and questioned the Legislature’s authority to name people to the commission.

 

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Weekend Forecast For North Mississippi

Today: Rain chances are only at 40%, so expect mostly sunny skies, with a high near 93. Calm wind becoming southeast around 5 mph. Tonight will be partly cloudy, with a low around 74.

SATURDAY: A 30% chance of showers and thunderstorms in the afternoon. Otherwise, expect sunny skies with a high near 92. Calm wind becoming south southeast around 5 mph. Saturday night will be mostly clear, with a low around 72.

SUNDAY: Mostly sunny skies, with a high near 93. Calm wind becoming south southeast around 5 mph. There is a 30% chance of showers and thunderstorms in the afternoon. Sunday night will be partly cloudy, with a low around 73.

Paradox Girl

Me? I am the girl your mother probably warned you about. The one who takes life by the horns and tackles it. The rebel in the crowd. The black sheep of her family. I am the one who is determined to do something just because someone told me not to and I make it a point to do it with every bit of passion I have flowing in my veins. I am the one who is running out the door with just a moment to spare, who threw her hair up in a messy bun, grabbed a not so healthy snack and cup of coffee, which if I am lucky, will stay in the cup instead of on my white pants. I am the one who barely wears makeup and could care less if I am the perfect standards of a ten in today’s model society. I would much rather eat some ice cream, shoot some pool, and dance in the rain. I have more spunk than the most of them and yet still enough drive that when it comes down to it that I can land the job you dreamed of without even trying.

I am a complete paradox of life. I wear the suits in a corner office and gossip with the women down at the salon on Main Street. I drink Starbucks coffee and carry purses that costs me entirely too much money, yet am as cheap as they come when ordering on the drive thru menu. I insist on paying a gym membership that I never have used and yet complain every day that I slip into my clothes how I need to be working out. I find myself loving someone and at that same time finding myself pushing them out of my life. I need closeness, but I need freedom even more. Sometimes I am a complete confusion of a hot mess, all the way down to my smudged mascara and wrinkled blazer. Other times I am a perfect example of what to wear with my killer heels, southern pearls and deep red lipstick. I can kill you with kindness and be the worst (you know what) you ever ran across.

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Isn’t that life? Life is a beautiful collage of moments that come from every aspect of the craziness that surrounds us to form one picture that somehow makes our story unique. Maybe I am proud of my crazy story. Maybe all those insane nights in the sorority house prepared me for the night I would take the bar top in the middle of a packed bar as a grown woman and dance out of fun. Maybe all the boyfriends I zipped through with ease breaking hearts right and left in my early adulthood retuned to me that heartbreak with a tattoo along my back to remember that crazy ex by. Maybe all the sleepless nights working through college to graduate with a 4.0 prepared me for the high stress and intense job that I now work. They say everything in life serves a purpose. I actually agree with that. Each step in our life is preparing us for another step down the road. We might not understand it until years later when we look back or we might never understand it at all. Don’t they say hindsight is 20/20? Life is crazy like that. All those friends who come into your life and then exit. They were there for a season. To carry you from point A to point B in life. Their season in your life was done.

Maybe people think I am insane or that I need to grow up in certain aspects. They don’t understand why I would ditch a six-figure income to try to make a business work on my own. They don’t understand why I would break up with a guy that treats me well to gain my freedom back. That used to bother me, because I sought my validation in other people. Now what they do not understand is not for me to worry about. I make my decision based on what is best in my life. What other people think is none of my business, nor does it affect my thinking.

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I want happy. I want freedom. I want motivation. I want the feeling of accomplishment. I am a complete mix of making it to the top of my company and then leaving them to start some new adventure because I hate the feeling of not being able to push to the top anymore. My dad always told me that no one ever stands still…. you either move forward or you slip backwards. I have always remembered that. I want to move forward. Sometimes that means taking a step back to move forward, but always choosing to push. Not getting to where you enjoy the comfort zone…because nothing grows there. Matter of fact things usually die there.

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Photo by Lucy Djevdet

So, let’s be crazy. Let’s be the mess this world needs. Let’s eat ice cream. Let’s travel the world. Let’s tell people how much we care. Let’s push to do things people say we cannot. Let’s build our own empire. Let’s dance on that bar top. Let’s enjoy the moment. If you get a chance to know the girl your mom warned you about, take it. You will have the ride of your life. We might not stay forever, but while we are there you will enjoy it. You will fall in love with life again. You will have fun. You will see that enjoying the moment is all life is about. So, take that chance. When we exit your life, we still are the same person. We still live life to the fullest. We are enjoying lots of new friends. We are seeing lots of new places. We are pushing for that new job. We are partying our Friday night and stressing in the office on Monday. We love and we leave. We hold on and we let go. It is just who we are. The Paradox Girl.

Charles Evers, civil rights activist and politician, dead at 97

Charles Evers passed away this week. He was 97. (AP Photo/Rogelio Solis)

Civil rights activist and politician Charles Evers, brother of slain NAACP leader Medgar Evers, died Wednesday morning in Brandon, his family said. He was 97.

“The world lost a fearless Civil Rights leader this morning,” a statement from his family said. “… The life mission of Charles Evers was to advance the work of his beloved brother, who was assassinated on June 12, 1963. After his killing, Charles Evers rushed to Jackson to take his brother’s place as field secretary for the Mississippi NAACP and in 1969 he became Mississippi’s first black mayor since Reconstruction in a biracial town (Fayette) … Our family is heartbroken and proud of his legacy.”

Charles Evers ran unsuccessfully for governor in 1971 and for U.S. Senate in 1978, as an Independent candidate.

He was born in Decatur, was a World War II Army veteran and along with his brother, became active in the Civil Rights Movement in the early 1950s. He served two decades as Fayette mayor.

Evers in recent years was a Republican, although he supported President Barack Obama. He endorsed President Donald Trump and was part of a welcoming committee for Trump when the president attended the opening of the Mississippi Civil Rights Museum.

Gov. Tate Reeves in a social media post on Wednesday said Evers “was a true friend to me and so many Mississippians.”

“His memory will always be cherished and honored,” Reeves said.

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